I have been very disturbed since I hard of the rape
of a six month old baby in Gujarat last week. A friend and I started a petition
that has till date only got ONLY 138 signatures. This in spite of our efforts to try and mobilise as many people as possible. I shared
my pain and anger hoping that it would garner support. For me it was a sure shot as WHO would not be outraged at a six month old baby being so brutally raped. I guess there are some out there who are inured to such aberrations. I tried again to find out what had happened to that little soul. But my efforts were in vain as there is no news update about that little baby. Is she is alive? Is she gone to a safer place? I do not know. A little baby girl from a deprived family belonging to a remote village does not make good copy. Even the media who normally thrives on shocking news is silent. The life of a tiny child does not make a difference to any one. It does not create the slighted ripple in our society or our collective conscience.
Since that day many more children have been abused. A 60 year old predator raped
a 6 year old in our capital city, a 50 year old sodomised
a 10 year old again in our capital city. Children continue to be raped and no one cares. Children continue to be abused with impunity and this will not change unless we do something now!
Children need to be protected and need to be taught as early as possible ways to protect themselves. We, as a society, have to shed our moralistic garb and accept the fact that sex education is a must as it can be true first line of defines that can give result immediately. A child who is taught about 'good touch' and 'bad touch' can save herself from abuse as she is made aware of her body and of the parts that are not to be violated. A child that is taught to say NO and raise her/his voice can raise an alarm in case the 'good' uncle/neighbour/friend touches her/him in an inappropriate manner. And I would request the cynics and the Cassandras to keep quiet as yes it may not always work but even if it does on one case, one child would have been saved. More so sex education is a must in a society that is highly confused and needs to learn to set boundaries. It is definitely one of the many tools at our disposal. But unless the authorities understand and accept it and introduce age appropriate sex education in all schools, nothing will happen.
Education has to be responsive to the prevalent realities. Something that seems to have been forgotten.
I hope more people will come forward and sign this petition. Once we have a sufficient number then we plan to send it to opinion and decision makers in the hope that it reaches the right destination.
Please forward this petition to all the people you know. Think of that little baby who was violated and who suffers in silence. Please be her voice.